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Divorcing dads: why separation hits men hard - and how to help

Divorce can hit men hard – and many dads withdraw just when they need people most. For divorcing dads, that isolation isn't only painful – it can be dangerous.

17 June 2026
43 MIN
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Divorce can hit men hard – and many dads withdraw just when they need people most. For divorcing dads, that isolation isn't only painful – it can be dangerous.

Kate is joined by psychologist Dr Eran Magen, founder of Divorcing Dads, to explore why men are so much more at risk during separation – and the simple things that help them through it.

We talk about:

  • Why divorced dads face a much higher suicide risk
  • The particular challenges separated dads face, and the part society still plays in making them harder
  • How a strong support network protects men's mental health
  • A simple way to tell friends and family what's going on - and ask for what you need

This episode is for any dad going through separation – and for anyone who wants to better support the men they care about.

Trigger warning: this episode talks about poor mental health and suicide. If you're affected by anything discussed, you can call Samaritans free on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.

Meet Eran Magen

Dr. Eran Magen earned his M.A. in education and Ph.D. in psychology from Stanford University and completed post-doctoral training in child psychology and population health. He is currently an assistant clinical professor at the Yale School of Medicine Department of Psychiatry. Eran is the founder of Divorcing Dads and Parenting For Humans, both of which support parents in building strong, collaborative and joyful relationships with their children. He is also the founder of EarlyAlert, which provides early suicide prevention support for students and veterans.

You can listen to Eran on the Divorcing Dads podcast and get in touch with him on LinkedIn.

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