
Divorcing dads: why separation hits men hard - and how to help
Divorce can hit men hard – and many dads withdraw just when they need people most. For divorcing dads, that isolation isn't only painful – it can be dangerous.
In this episode, Kate is joined by Jeremy Gordon, Rabbi of New London Synagogue, Thomas Pascoe, Campaign Director at the Coalition for Marriage, and Isabel Russo, Head of Ceremonies at Humanists UK, to talk about divorce and society.
In this episode, Kate is joined by Jeremy Gordon, Thomas Pascoe, and Isabel Russo, Head of Ceremonies at Humanists UK to discuss divorce in our society.
About the episode:
In this edition, they discuss divorce in our society, and whether, as society changes, divorce laws should change too; the current system of divorce, and how it affects couples looking to separate; whether No-Fault divorce serves to help or hinder the most vulnerable people in our society; and the role of religious institutions and their leaders.
Please note: this episode was recorded before the introduction of no-fault divorce in England and Wales, and may mention the previous legal system. For accurate information on the legal process of divorce, please visit amicable.co.uk
About our guests:
Jeremy Gordon is a Rabbi of New London Synagogue, Thomas Pascoe is a Campaign Director at the Coalition for Marriage, and Isabel Russo is a Head of Ceremonies at Humanists UK.
More resources:
Get in touch with amicable for information on the legal, financial and children aspects of separation. Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert through the amicable website.

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