
Divorcing dads: why separation hits men hard - and how to help
Divorce can hit men hard – and many dads withdraw just when they need people most. For divorcing dads, that isolation isn't only painful – it can be dangerous.
In this episode, Kate was joined by Laura Friedman Williams and James Preece to discuss sex and dating after divorce.
In this episode, Kate was joined by Laura Friedman Williams and James Preece to discuss sex and dating after divorce.
About the episode:
Please be aware that this episode contains sexual references so you might want to listen out of earshot of any children
Kate and her guests discuss sex and dating after divorce or separation. Laura explains why she thinks that being single again after a divorce is a gift, and an opportunity to have sex with confidence. James also provides his tips on how to use dating apps safely and how different genders approach sex after divorce and separation. Please note: this episode was recorded before the introduction of no-fault divorce in England and Wales, and may mention the previous legal system. For accurate information on the legal process of divorce, please visit amicable.co.uk
About our guests:
Laura is a mother of three children and author of the recently published book Available: A Very Honest Account of Life After Divorce, which has been a #1 bestseller on Amazon and has featured in The Financial Times, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, and The Daily Mail.
James is one of the UK's leading Dating Experts and Dating Coaches. He is regularly featured in the Independent, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, and The Guardian. He is also an official dating spokesman for the UK government and the author of 15 bestselling dating books.
More resources:
Get in touch with amicable for information on the legal, financial and children aspects of separation. Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert through the amicable website.

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