Life after divorce
April 17, 2024
43 MIN

Do feelings of loneliness in a relationship lead to separation?

In this episode, Kate is joined by former family barrister turned therapist and author, Charlotte Friedman.

Listen to this episode on your favourite platform

Youtube Music logo

In this episode, Kate is joined by former family barrister turned therapist and author, Charlotte Friedman.

About the episode:

The focus of this episode is loneliness. Kate and Charlotte begin by exploring what loneliness is, whether it’s a physical or mental feeling or both, and how loneliness links to grief, as well as the emotional journey of divorce and separation.

They discuss seeking professional help and how children and other family members can sense and react to loneliness. Finally, Charlotte and Kate discuss coping mechanisms for loneliness, especially post-separation.

About our guest:

Charlotte decided to move from the courtroom to the therapist’s chair to help people manage the emotional journey of divorce.

In her book, Breaking Upwards, Charlotte offers calm, therapeutic advice on everything from managing loneliness to letting go of grievance.

Charlotte is a trained Psychodynamic Psychotherapist registered with the British Psychoanalytic Council and the Tavistock Society. She is also the founder of the Divorce Support Group which has provided a community for people trying to manage the emotional impact of divorce and separation.

More resources:

Get in touch with amicable for information on the legal, financial and children aspects of separation. Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert through the amicable website.

Latest Episodes

The Divorce Podcast episode thumbnail featuring Kate Daly
Coparenting
January 7, 2026
34 MIN

Split Happens: How AI can support young people through parental separation

This week Kate introduces Split Happens - a new digital platform created by amicable and Restored Lives to support young people aged 13-30 navigating parental separation.

#172

The Divorce Podcast episode thumbnail featuring Kate Daly
Emotional journey
December 31, 2025
12 MIN

In brief: Why we avoid difficult conversations during divorce (Part 1)

In this Part 1 mini-episode, Kate shares gentle guidance on difficult conversations during divorce — from finances and children’s arrangements to talking about the future.

#171

The Divorce Podcast episode thumbnail featuring Kate Daly
Coparenting
December 24, 2025
38 MIN

Spotlight: Navigating the holidays without your children

This week, we’re revisiting a much-loved episode from last year to bring reassurance and support to parents navigating the holidays without their children.

#170