Life after divorce

In brief: Making a house move smoother after separation

If you’re facing a house move during or after separation and feeling overwhelmed by the logistics, emotions or sheer volume of decisions, this episode offers calm, practical guidance to help you feel more in control.

25 February 2026
13 MIN
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If you’re facing a house move during or after separation and feeling overwhelmed by the logistics, emotions or sheer volume of decisions, this episode offers calm, practical guidance to help you feel more in control.

Kate is joined by moving experts Nicholas Illingworth and James Mehmet from Abels Moving Services to share practical guidance that will help you feel more prepared for the move in just a few minutes.

In this episode, we cover:

  • The key differences between a standard house move and moving after separation
  • Why detailed planning is especially important when emotions are running high
  • Practical packing tips to reduce stress and last-minute panic
  • Strategies to make the move smoother for you and your family
  • Common logistics mistakes to avoid when moving out post-divorce

This episode is for anyone moving house during or after a separation who wants clear, expert-led advice to make the process more organised and a little less daunting.

About Abels

Nicholas Illingworth (Partnership Manager) and James Mehmet (Branch Manager and Head of Special Projects) are moving experts at Abels Moving Services.

Since 1958, Abels Moving Services has specialised in high-quality International shippinghome removals and storage - including sensitive moves during separation, where emotional and practical considerations require extra care. Their in-house moving teams are experts in moving antiques and specialist items such as pianos, grandfather clocks and fine art alongside day-to-day household items and furniture.

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